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PARENTS
GUIDELINES
It
is not our intention to exclude parents from attending training
sessions. However, we strongly request your assistance in the observation
of the following guidelines:
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Team leadership is the coach’s job, in any sport. No coaching
of players by parents is permitted. Coaching must be left for the
coaches.
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Do not give feedback to your child regarding performance unless
you have previously consulted with the coach because this can lead
to contradictory information causing confusion and frustration to
your child.
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If you are disappointed with your child’s performance, keep
it to yourself. Instead help the child to deal with it positively.
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Make sure your child attends all training sessions and is on time.
Do not punish your child by not sending him to training sessions.
This will have a more negative effect as attending training sessions
is not a reward for good behavior but an experience to develop socially
and physically.
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Do not yell out personal, highly emotional negative comments during
training sessions. Give plenty of praise even when your boy plays
really scrap. Be supportive; do not criticize them every time they
make a mistake.
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Never try to influence the coach’s decisions even if it means
your own child does not get as much of a chance to play. Your enthusiasm
for the team should never be dependent on your satisfaction with
the coach’s decisions.
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If you are still frustrated, set up an individual meeting with the
coach and try to share and discuss your opinions and feelings in
an objective and understanding atmosphere.
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Always stop to think about how you are acting in practice or at
a match and improve your behavior if necessary.
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